Be careful because what works for others may not work for you, there are tendencies you may end up living a double life, (copying others, which is found in all works of life). It is found in all of us
That you see she is successful or happy,does not mean what worked for her will for you. try to know what she did, how she did it. in most case, the first thing we do is try to copy that person and make a fool of ourselves ( see jim marketing blog on Seth Godin’s blog, there is so much you can learn from him).
I have done so much of this copy-cat myself and it got me nowhere but troubles, this could happens with anything, from fashion to business, family, neighbors, you name it.
we need to discover ourselves, what we are capable of, what gives us confidence, happiness and satisfaction, I admit that it is difficult to discover you.Took me so much time to know this, I believe I know what i want to do now, but I STILL ASK MYSELF IF AM ON THE RIGHT TRACK. You just have to take that risk.
knowing what you wanna do with your life, there might be obstacles on your way, trying to pull you down, you know what, never allow that,, stay positive, keep geting back up, and keep searching for other ways around it,( which is legitimate of course).dance around it, you will finally come to the point where everything would be easy for you.
Let us in on how to make a great discovery.