I saw that animal lose control, does this happen at all? Yes, animal fights each other or display some bad or funny acts.Human beings often lose control, and I wonder what the difference between these species are. The differences are the medium of communication and mobility.Some people treat humans like animals and animals get to be treated like humans, not so much differences.
I’ll tell you, I don’t like to be a witness to a scene when someone lose’s self-control, the scene looks pathetic always, and you will wonder if that is the same guy you just spoke with, or the girl you just saw behave like an angle or I just kissed him. The animal characteristics in us comes out often than expected, and this is as a result of so many factors: job pressure, economy pressure, family pressure,peer pressure, this list goes on and on.
There are ways to deal with losing it, you could deal with it when you see your loved one or presented with opportunities that could help you keep your calmness. We need to calm down when we want to find our way through what breaks us down, the solution is always there before us,and it doesn’t take much to tune down our worries and find it.
We lose control in many ways when faced with different challenges, power, woman, disasters, economy and all other kind of pressures. A man could lose control when he is with a woman and she pretends not to want it with him or simply slowing things down on the spot of action( this could lead to rape).
A leader could lose self-control when he is in so much power and feel insecure, there are past leaders who have lost their lives because they lost control and the present ones paying for their sins one way or another
‘Absolute power corrupts absolutely’ I have come to realize that this is true, I have seen this happen so many times, in my country, other African countries, Asia, Europe and other continents.
I keep asking myself why these leaders do not learn from the mistakes of the past leaders or their own mistakes, they just keep committing crimes against humanity and forgetting that they get to pay for them one day.
These unwelcome behaviour cuts across everybody, they way we display it might be different, in our houses to the maids, the half brothers or sisters, in-laws and could be family friends. It could also be in our places of work, social gathering, or different organizations, You just have to watch it and be yourself, try to be in control all the time and know how to put things in order, no one is perfect but the moment you realized that you are out of control then you have to look back and put things in order.
I watched how Gadhafi was captured and despite all the evils he did, I almost cried for him.(his sins would not give way for my tears to drop, I guess he is not worth my tears) He had so much power that am sure he would never had thought that he could die like a chicken in the hands of the people he treated unjustly.
It is alright to lose control or have this animal instincts at times when you are in an adventurous mood to have some fun, but we need to be cautious because our actions define the lives of so many people, choose not to destroy these lives but make it easier for them by offering your services instead.
How do you keep yourself in control?