We live and mature by making mistakes as guidance to grow and gain confidence in ourselves.

Looking at this vividly, mistakes define our lives, you might not agree with this notion but it makes us who we are.

Making mistakes is  acceptable but, making the same mistake is unpleasant. Living miserable, means, you live a life of repeating the same mistake over and over.

You learn through mistakes, right, this generation seems lazy to analyze their mistakes and learn from them. They want to be spoon-fed, get everything by not working for them, expecting ‘Manna from Heaven’.

Too many mistakes in my life, I am susceptible to laziness when it comes to analyzing and learning from my mistakes, the fact is, once I made a mistake and reel from it, I forgot how disappointed I was or the pains that came with it, it’s like a pregnant woman who at labour, caused and swore that she would never do this again, but after the baby comes out, she forgets her pains and wanna do it again. We don’t need to be that pregnant woman, the mistakes we make shape our future, we can’t forget the disappointments and pains, we need strategies to avoid mistakes most importantly, the same mistakes.

I  have made a lot of mistakes with guys, my career, my friends, my family, in everything that has made me up. You are not an exception!

We have all forgot that mistakes leads to correction and avoidance, but it has practically become who we are. ( we tend to feel indifferent at times about out mistakes and accept them, by this, you are simply accommodating more and probably telling your future-‘ to hell with you’).

How awful, for a mess/mistake to be connected to an individual.

We cannot avoid mistakes, at times, they are out of ignorance. The moment we realize that our actions are messy, the best is to analyze and learn from them and avoid making them further. I feel so sad, when I meet people who do not give a damn about their actions, they don’t care about the consequences of their actions to themselves or other people, they never see this as a mistake but as who they wanna be.

Mistake is an action or judgement that is misguided or wrong.

Avoid mistakes to make your world appealing and accommodating.

Mistakes are inevitable just as ‘we cannot direct the Wind, but we can adjust the Sail’.




  1. Olivier

    Good post.

    People never learn and history has proved that point. Instead of advancing together, there are and always will be people for power or personal interest who will commit again the same mistakes.

    At a lower level, we lack the distance to fully analyze our acts. That’s why we often do the same mistakes. We just see them after we made them 🙂

    That’s my humble opinion 🙂

    • Olivier,
      YOu have a good opinion, mistakes are suppose to make us a better person, take us further to a great future, but it’s obvious that, many do not learn form mistakes, and by this, things never change in their lives.

      Thanks for your comment.


  2. I do mistakes all the time, and eventually I repeat most of them. I like it 😉

    • Thanks for your comment. I smiled when I read this, you like when you repeat your mistakes? Am not sure you have made bad and stupid mistakes before, you will have regrets if you really keep repeating the. Mistakes are allowed for experiences and knowledge.


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