We live and mature by making mistakes as guidance to grow and gain confidence in ourselves.
Looking at this vividly, mistakes define our lives, you might not agree with this notion but it makes us who we are.
Making mistakes is acceptable but, making the same mistake is unpleasant. Living miserable, means, you live a life of repeating the same mistake over and over.
You learn through mistakes, right, this generation seems lazy to analyze their mistakes and learn from them. They want to be spoon-fed, get everything by not working for them, expecting ‘Manna from Heaven’.
Too many mistakes in my life, I am susceptible to laziness when it comes to analyzing and learning from my mistakes, the fact is, once I made a mistake and reel from it, I forgot how disappointed I was or the pains that came with it, it’s like a pregnant woman who at labour, caused and swore that she would never do this again, but after the baby comes out, she forgets her pains and wanna do it again. We don’t need to be that pregnant woman, the mistakes we make shape our future, we can’t forget the disappointments and pains, we need strategies to avoid mistakes most importantly, the same mistakes.
I have made a lot of mistakes with guys, my career, my friends, my family, in everything that has made me up. You are not an exception!
We have all forgot that mistakes leads to correction and avoidance, but it has practically become who we are. ( we tend to feel indifferent at times about out mistakes and accept them, by this, you are simply accommodating more and probably telling your future-‘ to hell with you’).
How awful, for a mess/mistake to be connected to an individual.
We cannot avoid mistakes, at times, they are out of ignorance. The moment we realize that our actions are messy, the best is to analyze and learn from them and avoid making them further. I feel so sad, when I meet people who do not give a damn about their actions, they don’t care about the consequences of their actions to themselves or other people, they never see this as a mistake but as who they wanna be.
Mistake is an action or judgement that is misguided or wrong.
Avoid mistakes to make your world appealing and accommodating.
Mistakes are inevitable just as ‘we cannot direct the Wind, but we can adjust the Sail’.